Orgasm denial. Forced orgasms. Two sides of the same coin. They both have their roots in orgasm control. One person denies or demands, the other complies.

Do you play with either end of the spectrum? Do you deny your bottoms the right to orgasm, or force them to come over and over? If you do, is it only during a single play session, or carried out over long periods of time?

Is it for play, for an increase in sexual satisfaction, all about control, or for punishment? Or perhaps a combination of them?

Do you have to ask or give permission for your other to be allowed to orgasm? Are there established rules of when, where or how often the bottom is allowed to orgasm? Is there a particular way that this permission is obtained or granted?

What about coming on command? How is that achieved, what kinds of training goes into it, and what is it like? Is it even possible?

If you are the one who is in an orgasm-denial relationship, do you ever resent not being allowed to come?

As the Top or the bottom, what do you get out of it?

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