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Sapio-what?? The first time I ran into the term was on the now-defunct blog of SapioSlut (she has a Tumblr or Tumblr-type blog now.) I was all like…there’s a kink about getting off on intelligence?? Seriously????

Seriously.  According to the Urban Dictionary:

2.  sapiosexual

(adj) A form of sexual orientation characterized by a strong attraction to intelligence in others, often regardless of gender and/or conventional attractiveness.

(n) A sapiosexual person.

I am sapiosexual. I think geeks and nerds are sexy–I often want to rub my clit against their minds.” – Kayar Silkenvoice

I really dig that last quote, by the way.

As if that isn’t enough, there’s even a Facebook page for it.

So, do you consider yourself a sapiosexual? Does intelligence get your kink-o-meter cranking? Does proper grammar and spelling fire you up? Does having a lover able to hold up their end of a philosophical discussion, or to wax poetic about economics, world politics, Greek history or just use words with more than two syllables make you hard, make you wet?

And if so, how does that inform your sex and kink life? What does it mean to be sapiosexual, and how does that impact what you do, how you do it or who you do it with?

Let’s talk about intelligence, let’s Get Our Kink On and talk about sapiosexuality!

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