I am delighted to welcome the lovely MX Nillan back to Kink of the Week again with a guest post about collars…
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I love feeling pretty, but sadly I don’t really get to very often. I know a lot of it is an internalized, negative self-talk issue. After hearing so many toxic, sexist, queerphobic things for most of your life it’s really hard to unlearn those notions in a greater effort to love yourself.
Despite putting myself out there as a loud and proud nonbinary queer, I still haven’t really figured out the whole how to feel sexy and attractive thing. So, as harsh as it sounds, I mostly feel incapable of experiencing “pretty”.
Not with my body.
Not with how I carry my fat around my gut. Not with how much hair covers every part of me. Not with how broad these shoulders are or how chubby my tits are.
That is, not until I put my collar and ears on. With them it’s an ENTIRELY different story. That’s the power they hold for me.
Because now I’m pretty as fuck.
December 16, 2018 at 11:04 pm
Pretty as fuck is absolutely the right words for you in this image!
Mollyx
December 17, 2018 at 12:23 am
Thank you so much for saying so! It’s one if my fave pics in a while, and a reminder that i need to wear my ears and collar WAY more often!
March 19, 2019 at 3:43 am
I think you are pretty as fuck in your ears and collar too. I would also find you pretty as fuck if you weren’t wearing them. You have a sweet face. No matter your shape you are perfect as you are. If I knew you in real life I would say it out loud. People can be such bastards but they are the ugly ones. I feel beauty comes from the heart and that is how it is measured. Hopefully, in here you can feel safe and nurtured. Be yourself in all your glory. Hold your head up high and walk tall.