Kink of the Week March 16-31: Honour Bondage
Honour Bondage, was suggested as a topic by Zebra Rose quite a while ago. It is was not a term I had ever heard before and so had to do a bit of research but then realised the best person to write this introduction was not me but Zebra Rose…
Honour bondage – what’s this?
It’s bondage without actual physical restraints – no cuffs, no ropes, no cage – only willpower. The desire to submit and obey pitted against discomfort or against reacting to pleasure. There are many ways to play with honour bondage, such as holding a particular position, keeping eyes closed or mouth open, staying silent or exercising control over breathing. Some might call it boringly soft-core, with nothing actually preventing you from doing your own thing, where’s the fun? For me, it’s all in the focus. Staying still or quiet requires a lot of concentration, especially when someone is doing their best to get you to react!
The mental and physical effort of self-imposed obedience can be it’s own reward, it leaves no room in the mind for distractions and – in my experience – heightens sensations in a delicious way. The work I do to make my body obey his orders, and the pride I take in doing so enhances the connection between us and fulfills my submissiveness in a way that fighting against restraints can’t compete with.
So there you have it. Now what about you and Honour Bondage. Is it something you enjoy playing with? Are you the one being honoured or the one doing the honouring? Or maybe you never heard of it before? Or maybe you have been doing it but didn’t know it was called that? Whatever your thoughts and experience come on this topic I want to hear them.
Let’s Get Our Kink On and talk about: Honour Bondage
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