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Kink of the Week October 1-16: Handjobs

A handjob is the art of masturbating a man to orgasm using just your hands. I think it is an underrated sex act that is often associated with first time sexual encounters and youthful fumblings prior to ‘going all the way’. However no matter how old or experienced you are I think handjobs deserve a place in your sexual repertoire.

For those of you who are penis owners what are your thoughts and experiences on handjobs? Is it something that you have left behind in your teen years or do you still like to get one from your partner(s) now. What it is about a good handjob that works for you? Do you like it slow or fast? Do you like a bit of friction or is lube a must? Do you remember the first handjob someone gave you, or maybe you have a particularly memorable one that you often think about? Does it fit into any other kinks, for example maybe as part of edging or orgasm denial.

For those of you who are the giver of handjobs what are your thoughts and experiences on this subject. Do you remember the first time you gave someone a handjob, was that the first time you ever touched a penis? Have you ever given someone a handjob in an unusual place? How about now, does your current partner(s) like a handjob now and then or maybe it is not something that really features in your life? Has a partner ever requested one or shown you just how they like it? Do you like seeing their ejaculate on your hands when they orgasm? Does it need to be a penis, would a strap-on work?

As per usual these are just some random thoughts that are meant to get you started and if you don’t want to write about your own experiences then you can always pen some fiction instead.

Let’s Get Our Kink On and talk about: Handjobs

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