Orgasm Control

Kink of the Week December 1– 16: Orgasm Control

Orgasm Control can include all sorts of things from orgasm denial to forced orgasms and everything else in-between.

Is orgasm control a part of your D/s or kinky relationship. If so what form does it take? Do you have to ask permission to have a wank/orgasm? Do you have to ask permission to come during ‘sex’? Is the act of asking part of what turns you on or is the aspect of control, or giving it up to someone else that works for you?

Maybe it is not a formal thing but something you like to indulge in during sex/play. Do you like to be the one controlled or the one who likes to be in control or even both? What kind of control do you enjoy? What does orgasm control look like to you?

What about ruined orgasms, are they part of orgasm control?

Orgasm control might be about chastity or it might be about asking or even begging. It might be about being forced to come again and again or it might be teased and bought to the edge multiple times. There are so many possibly ways to play with orgasm control so whatever floats your boat then feel free to share that.

Whatever your thoughts, experiences, images, stories, fantasies you have around pinching this is the time and place to share them

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