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Kink of the Week November 16-30: Men in Panties
This is not about cross dressing in general but the more specific aspect of it that is men wearing women’s underwear. It is not something I know a great deal about but I do know that it is appears to be a fairly popular kink for men and women alike.
So tell me folks about how or if this particular fetish works for you? Are you are a man who enjoys slipping into some lacy lingerie and if you are what about that does it for you? Is the look, the feel or the taboo element of it that makes it your thing. How did you discover that you liked it? Do you buy woman’s undies specifically for you to wear or do you like borrowing a partners. How have you shared your love of this with partners or maybe it is your secret?
Alternatively maybe you are the person, man or women, who appreciates the male panty wearer. If so tell us all the whys and wherefores about how it works for you
And as always you can also share with us if and why this kink is not for you.
Let’s Get Our Kink On and talk about: Men in Panties
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December 18, 2019 at 9:41 pm
I have a very big attraction to men in panties and bras and other women lingerie like nightgowns and leather straps. I dont know why but it just sets something off in me. Is there an actual word for this?
March 21, 2020 at 11:34 pm
I love wearing lingerie bras and panties turn me on
July 22, 2020 at 5:47 pm
me too
May 16, 2020 at 7:47 am
I am 56 been wearing Panties & mastubuting with them for Years I am Not Guy love my wife I just love making my self horny
June 17, 2020 at 6:03 am
I’ve been wearing panties for 15 years and I do it because I like the way they feel aginst my body, I have over 200 pairs of panties, I buy new panties almost every week
July 4, 2020 at 1:31 am
Its great hear your story bill makes me feel better of this fetish from males point of view I
love all women’s clothing makes the mind open up & makes Cocky stand to attention
I am not gay married & love my Panty Collection Bra’s Stockings lace silk skirts dresses.
Regards
Peter
January 4, 2020 at 7:00 pm
Hi Awsten!
Dont know if there is a name for it but i love wearing them. Bra’s not soo much (the fit is just not right 😉 ) but panties stockings tight shirts , anything really female.
I am not Bi or gay, but like you, i get soooo off on it.
April 11, 2020 at 3:33 pm
LOVE TO
January 6, 2020 at 8:54 pm
was a teen when i first wore panties. my moms friend spent the night and when she was bathing, i looked in her room and saw her panties on the floor. i put them on, so soft and silky and i got so hard. i came so fast rubbing myself. have always enjoyed wearing and still do to this day.
February 9, 2020 at 1:52 pm
I’ve been wearing panties for years. Don’t really know why I started. Just curious I guess. I now have quite a collection, more panties than men’s underwear. I really don’t even wear the men’s anymore. It’s either panties or commando. Really just a harmless fetish.
July 9, 2020 at 12:13 am
I agree with you Mark…Don’t know why I really started but, hands down, I have many more pairs of panties than I do men’s underwear. Agree, again, about it being a harmless fetish.
February 15, 2020 at 12:40 pm
The first time i took a pair of panties..i was about to do my laundry..i turned the corner and there they were on the floor.A pair of white lace thongs i hurried and picked them up ,still damp to the touch.i remembered that my girlfriends 32 year old daughter had just come up the stairs from the laundry room and i thought ,did she leave them on purpose for me , this wasnt the first time that a pair of her panties were on the floor, a couple days earlier i found a pair of g string panties and i told her that she shouldnt leave them there ,that i am a man ,she appologized and said it wont happen again, but this time i couldnt help myself ,i put her panties to my nose and smelled her sweet scent,my cock rose to attention as i inhaled and felt the wetness of the crotch of those white thong panties, the aroma was strong and delicious ,,i had to lick the crotch ,just a little , i kept those panties in my drawer that day ,finding a reason to open the drawer to smell them on more time ,later that night i was home alone and for some reason after i smelled them, i put them on and right away i had an erection ,the feel of them sliding up my but crack ,ill never forget my cock was as hard as it ever was, i had to pull those panties aside to free myself ,just as i was about to cum, i heard the front door open ,i quickly ran into my bedroom and suddenly there was a knock on the door , it happened so quick that i couldnt cover myself , she barged in and took one look at me wearing her panties ,the grin on her face said alot, she confessed to me that her mother told her that i enjoy the scent of a woman ,and that aroused her so much that she got wet in an instant ,she didnt stop there she wanted me to walk around the room and show her the panties that i found of hers ,,i hesitated a bit , she said that she would tell on me if i dont,, i did with my cock hanging to one side ,,she sat on the bed and began licking her lips ,she said that i must wear a pair of her panties any time she wants me too ,,she then stood up and lifted her skirt and slowly pulled a pair of black g string panties down ever so slowly ,and tossed them to me and said smell these wet soaked panties and put them on for me…NOW ! and maybe ill watch you stroke that hard cock of yours ,, if i like what i see…im going to suck you dry,, and tomorrow im going to bring a real good friend and we are going to watch you wearing panties for us ,, and then slowly take them panties down and both suck your cock ,,you get us wet and you can have us both ,,after you eat us out ,and make us cum,, i did what i was told and even got to taste her ass
February 16, 2020 at 1:03 am
As a teen was fascinated by cousins silky panties, she let me try on thong and was instantly hooked. Got so hard
February 16, 2020 at 9:23 pm
panties feel so sweet for both my wife who likes the touch and feel as well as me the wearer… sexy . silky and flimsy its a turn on for us both . I wear them whenever I can to feel good. I,m not sure when it all started but who cares I just love it …
February 21, 2020 at 1:01 pm
Been wearing panties for years, thongs my favorite. Wife used to get turned on, I would rub my cock in panties against her leg as she used her vibrator on her pussy. We would cum so hard. Now I wear in secret, my cock still gets hard when wearing panties.
March 19, 2020 at 2:30 pm
The first time I realized that I liked wearing panties I was around 15 and I had swiped a pair of one of my aunts girlfriends panties off the bathroom floor, planed to only sniff but became curious. It was a on again off again practice it depended on when the opportunity happened. Then I had stopped for ten years when I developed a addiction to amphetamines and every time I’d have this urge to be wearing Women’s Panties. And I was staying at a female friend’s place, In the beginning I would borrow pairs of her panties while she’d be gone and put them back. Only after a short time I would keep a pair here and a pair there. They made me feel like I was in touch with my body more when i put on women’s Panties. didn’t want to be with guys didn’t want to be a woman I stay aware of my. Equipment whenever I’m wearing Panties
March 22, 2020 at 12:44 am
I too enjoy wearing nightie nightgown nightshirt and cotton full or highcut briefs of the female variety of course. Not so much the bras lingerie type. Nor is it something sexual or turn on. It’s just sometimes just feels right. Not really want to dress more beyond that or be a woman. I’m a heterosexual male n attracted to females
April 1, 2020 at 10:39 pm
In my experience most men who enjoy this kink tend to be heterosexual. It has nothing to do with the gender you are attracted to but that you get off on the taboo nature of wearing women’s clothes. Thank you for leaving your comment
April 2, 2020 at 10:09 pm
I couldn’t agree more. Very welcome
March 24, 2020 at 9:41 pm
I have always loved panties on women. I wore my first pair when I was 15. For me, wearing panties is a wonderfully naughty feeling. The soft fabric on my penis, the idea no one knows I’m wearing panties, and the risk of getting found out. I love getting caught wearing panties by women. I like women finding out what a sissy slut I am. Sometimes they are put off. But several have liked it. Some feel it makes me more in touch with the feminine viewpoint. I have occasionally been able to wear sticking, panties and a cute too in female company. But I always get an erectiin…
March 30, 2020 at 4:57 pm
One of the issues that is seldom mentioned is that some types of women’s panties are simply more comfortable to wear than men’s underwear.
March 31, 2020 at 10:25 am
I’m an open crossdresser. I don’t want to exclusively feminine I just suit certain things that are for girl. I prefer some the material and fit of some panties. Mens underwear is so heavy and cumbersome. Shirts just roll up your leg and we’re not all endowed enough to fill the front pouch that just flaps around and the extra material is just uncomfortable. I’ve been lucky to be accepted with only positivity. My girlfriend is similar to me in his she views it because I am male and heterosexual I just have a preference for certain clothing and I’m still very much a man. I’ve just adapted a few things that suit me and I feel more confident and free as I am very creative and also cant bare the shackles of society that dictate who we can and can not be. I hoow this helps anyone that’s struggling or confused as it’s not always a case of gender and sexual identity but more an exploration of clothing, cultures, one’s self. To become someone else in order to understand more about yourself and why you have anxiety and unsettlement about yourself sometimes you just have to follow Freddie Mercury and Break Free
April 29, 2020 at 9:08 am
I do agree with you and do you ever share any pictures of yourself in your panties. Or have you ever been in a room with more then one woman with jyst in your panties. I would to be in panties in front of a number of women.
May 16, 2020 at 7:55 am
Write to me
July 4, 2020 at 6:31 am
Well said I love my panties 55 and still enjoying them makes my cock rock.
April 11, 2020 at 11:28 pm
All I got to say is I love wearing women’s panties It totally feel so good up against my cock Makes me so hard and horny Found my 1st Pair I picked them up and they were damp I smelt them it’s Was the best smell I have ever smelled in my life when I was a small boy around 11 I only wear the dirty ones They must have the sent left in them
April 15, 2020 at 7:08 am
I just love the feel and comfort of wearing panties. Women have the best ideas when it comes to tight fitting fabrics that caress you all through the day. I’m straight, but love these panties.
April 27, 2020 at 11:06 pm
Love wearing panties and admire guys who wear
April 29, 2020 at 9:02 am
I am a 68 year old ex marine and I love wearing panties. I have worn them all the time since 2015. I even wear them to doctors appointments. I like people especially women to see me wearing panties. It really turns me on to know that a women just saw my panties. The reaction on their face is great. I hsve asked women in stores to help me find a certain size or style they think it us tor my wife until I tell them that they are for me. So is there more guys out that the same as I do to show off that you are wearing panties. I am very anxious to talk some guys that like to show off their panties.
May 20, 2020 at 1:48 pm
I wear 24/7 and wife knows and accepts fully which makes it wonderful….enjoy a pad in the panties and sometimes a tampon up me……hope others know the joy also
May 21, 2020 at 3:57 am
I wear panties under my Jean’s most days and I love it. The only times I don’t wear panties is at work, where I feel it would be totally inappropriate because of the setting of my work (I work 3 days a week, full time hours). Panties are so much better, feel so much nicer on my skin.
I think it all started when my sister who is 5 years older than myself, would sometimes force me to wear her dresses when we played together when we were children, our mother would tell her off when she caught her but it happened a few times.
I don’t fully understand why I love it so much but I think this is what has caused me to want to wear panties and female clothes.
I really enjoy how feminine lingerie feels and looks on me.
I experimented with my sisters underwear when I was late pre-teen a couple of times and I remember it was very arousing although I didn’t masturbate at the time. When I was about 7 years old we once played a game where she got undressed and said I could touch her anywhere I wanted, I didn’t understand what was happening at the time and only remembered this much later in my life, it never happened again as we were interpreted but not caught before much happened. I have never told anybody about this and still to this day haven’t spoken with her about it, I suspect that she thinks I have forgotten about it as we were so young.
Later I experimented with my mothers underwear in my late teens and again I immensely enjoyed it, I felt very guilty about this at the time and I still don’t know if they found out about it or not as I was never questioned about it.
There was large gaps between these experiences, I didn’t cross dress again until my mid 30s and in a relationship with my girlfriend. She isn’t into lingerie and I was probably a bit frustrated by this. After many attempts at trying to get her to wear sexy panties I decided to go to a well known retailer who are famous for their lingerie and bought a red satin push up bra with matching thong suspenders combination and stockings. I remember being very embarrassed, standing in line to pay for my goods but I loved every second of it. I couldn’t wait to get home so I took my lingerie to the men’s department in the same store and picked up a pair of trousers to pretend to try on but I actually put on my lingerie In the stall, put on my clothes over them. I felt so ecstatic, horny and aroused but I stopped myself from masturbating but only just. I don’t drive so I wore my panties and bra home on the train, bus home, I even had a pint on two in a bar, aroused the whole time.
I told my girlfriend about it that same night and I am very thankful that she was very understanding, I couldn’t bare the guilt of hiding my fetish from her. She became my fiancee shortly after and is now my wife.
I have a large and diverse collection of panties now and wear them any time I possibly can without causing myself or my wife embarrassment. I like High leg, Shorts, Bikini, Brazilian cuts in satin, lace, silk, nylon, mesh. Probably Lace or mesh are my favourite materials. I love suspenders and stockings (sheer but never fishnet) and have matching sets. I still visit the same store but I shop on line as well, it depends how brave I’m feeling, that and the rush of being in a place and buying things that most people would say I shouldn’t. If I could put that feeling in a bottle, cigarette or syringe I’d probably be a hopeless addict (or a billionaire). The thrill is intoxicating, my heart hammers in my chest and my blood pumps so fast I feel almost giddy when I shop in store picking up the most sexy panties I can find. Thankfully I have a head that can tell me when to cool off. I’ve spent quite a bit of money on my panties but I budget pretty well so it would never be a problem. I’ve recently started to buy other feminine clothes but my wife doesn’t know this as I only dress up properly alone. I know this is a powerful fetish. I will never be able to stop wearing women’s lingerie and I don’t want to but I will never let it control my life.
June 4, 2020 at 9:44 am
Love wearing panties and all types of feminine garments. Have had large breasts since puberty so can wear bras without breast forms. Dressing up in bra and panties, garter belt and stockings, high heels and a flirty dress with appropriate jewelry makes me feel like the woman I’d like to be.
My wife likes it when I dress as her giri friend. She helps me with my makeup and hair. We hit the bars, and I get hit on by men as much as she does, which really amuses her
When we get home we undress, cream our makeup off, and put on sexy nighties.. she straps on her dildo and makes love to me as if I was a woman..
June 4, 2020 at 6:05 pm
That is fucking hot and delicious
June 7, 2020 at 1:38 pm
I wear panties 24/7 and have for the past 6 years. I straight up asked my wife to buy me some and she did. I wear pink ones, polka-dot ones. Ones with bows. All discreetly underneath my business attire. I gave heard it referred to as underdressimg, but can never find enough content about this fetish online. But I love it – the feel, the soft touch, the comfort mmmmmm
June 10, 2020 at 4:52 pm
Love wearing panties, stockings, bra, sexy nighties & sometimes a dress over all of that. My wife likes watching me get dressed & has given me several pairs of her panties to wear. It is a real turn on for me either when masturbating or making love to my wife.
July 2, 2020 at 11:11 am
I love wearing panties also. Mainely a stretchy thong which I buy a size small because I love the way it feels instant hard-on. I only wear at night because I get so horny when wearing them I have to masturbate a lot, When I wake in the morning or whenever I always have a hard-on and I have to cum at least two times or more to settle down. This is a great fetish and all should embrace it and explore it. I havebeen able to explore it really far and it only gets better, I mean who doesn’t like the feeling of nice tight silky clothing against their dick and ass.
July 23, 2020 at 5:47 pm
I love wearing my wifes panties and thongs. I only do it when she’s not in the house. A few years ago she asked if I’ve ever worn her thong and panties, I said yes and she went mad at me told me it was wrong and said not to do it again. So now along with my own stockings it’s my secret indulgence.
August 16, 2020 at 10:16 pm
I am sorry she responded like that to you.
Molly
September 12, 2020 at 3:24 pm
I love wearing them and have been for years . My ass actually looks better than most girls . I actually have naturally smooth legs and get teased at times. When I jog with friends in winter in tights the girls comment on my butt