Kink of the Week Dec 16-31: Public Play, Kink/Play Events
I am not talking about tying someone up in your local woods and spanking them or asking someone to remove their underwear in a public place, I am talking about kinky play events.
Do you regularly attend kink play events? Do you have a favourite event or club? What do you love about it? Do you go to socialise or play or both? Do you go along or with a partner(s) or friends?
Do you remember you first time at such an event? Was it what you expected or did it surprise you? Did you indulge in kink play or just go and watch the first time?
Do you like playing in a public setting like that or maybe you tend to vanish to a private space if their is one? Do you like being watched? Or maybe you go to watch? Is it about the opportunity to use play equipment like spanking benches and St Andrew’s Cross that you probably don’t have at home? Is their something about the whole experience/setting that just gets you off? Is it about the opportunity to dress-up? Do you have specific outifts to attend such events? Maybe the event you love is dedicated to some form of fetwear?
What about peer learning type events with workshops etc?
Or maybe it is something you have never done but are curious about? What about the idea of it turns you on? Or maybe the whole idea freaks you out and it’s a big old no for you?
Let’s Get Our Kink On and talk about: Public Play, Kink/Play Events
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December 17, 2019 at 9:42 pm
I have yet to attend a play type of event (though I hope to sooner than later!) but attending my first kink related event was a really big thing, even though it was super low key and just like a bdsm 101 workshop. I wrote about this a while ago, would it be suitable to link up here?
December 17, 2019 at 11:04 pm
Hi
I ask that all posts are recent and so when people have asked this in the past I always suggest writing a new post introducing the topic, maybe mention about wanting to go to a play event and why but then link to your past post within that.
Molly
December 18, 2019 at 10:37 am
Okay, no problem! thank you 😊