Washing/Grooming

Kink of the Week June 1-16: Washing/Grooming

So the obvious things that might fall under this kink are showering or taking a bath together but what about when it becomes more of an act of service or care. The scene that springs to my mind if the at the end of the movie Secretary where Edward Gray carries Lee up the stairs to his apartment and lovingly and tenderly washes her in the bath including washing her hair. Yes it is romantic but there is also an interesting D/s aspect to it in that he is the dominant partner caring for her and so it becomes a very powerful act of his desire to care and nurture her.

So this topic is all about exploring the subject of washing and/or grooming a partner in some way.

If you have a power exchange relationship maybe it is a part of that? Do you get off on washing your partners hair or maybe painting their toe nails or shaving their face? (We have done shaving as a kink in it’s own right but it can definitely fall into this topic too) Is it an act of service or an act of care. Are you the dominant or submissive partner?

Of course it doesn’t need to be part of a power exchange relationship but maybe it is something you just really get off on doing for someone or having done for you. Maybe you love it when someone brushes your hair, or does the thought of someone massaging your feet turn you on? Do you want to be the one doing or the one receiving? Is it about a very specific act or just the whole idea of caring or being cared for in that way which works for you?

Let’s Get Our Kink On and talk about: Washing/Grooming

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