Kink of the Week December 1-16: Collars
Time for another topic revisit. We first did this subject back in May 2013 but with so many more people now joining in with this meme it seems like a good idea to bring it back again.
It is a popular part of BDSM and D/s culture. For some people it is a very important part of their relationship, acting as a symbol a bit like a wedding ring but for others it something that is used as part of their kinky play and has no other significance.
So tell me about you and collars.
Is wearing a collar or something like it a part of your relationship dynamic. Do you wear it all the time or only for play? Do you have different collars for different occasions? Do you have a favourite collar?
Are you the person who puts the collar on someone? What it is about collars that works for you. Is what they represent or how they look or a combination of both? Have you collared more than one person. Does it mean something slightly different depending on the partner?
Maybe you have never worn a collar but the idea of it turns you on?
Or maybe the thought of them leaves you stone cold?
Let’s Get Our Kink On and talk about: Collars
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December 3, 2018 at 5:34 pm
I have given my sub collars to wear, including a couple which she picked out herself. Generally, these aren’t especially fitting for daily wear, including one she asked for with a “slut” nametag. I bought her a necklace as a substitute only to discover that her fashion sense requires that she coordinate colors, and the necklace doesn’t match with much of her wardrobe. As our relationship is that of bedroom submission only, I can’t order her to wear it gull-time anyway. She’s a Leo and only surrenders her will to me when intimacy occurs. My plan is to buy her more necklaces of various colors, and to ask her to wear one as much as possible.