Kink of the Week December 1-16: Collars

Time for another topic revisit. We first did this subject back in May 2013 but with so many more people now joining in with this meme it seems like a good idea to bring it back again.

It is a popular part of BDSM and D/s culture. For some people it is a very important part of their relationship, acting as a symbol a bit like a wedding ring but for others it something that is used as part of their kinky play and has no other significance.

So tell me about you and collars.

Is wearing a collar or something like it a part of your relationship dynamic. Do you wear it all the time or only for play? Do you have different collars for different occasions? Do you have a favourite collar?

Are you the person who puts the collar on someone? What it is about collars that works for you. Is what they represent or how they look or a combination of both? Have you collared more than one person. Does it mean something slightly different depending on the partner?

Maybe you have never worn a collar but the idea of it turns you on?

Or maybe the thought of them leaves you stone cold?

Let’s Get Our Kink On and talk about: Collars

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